SLEN should be looking at anyone lover relationship (or maybe ally and lover) in the area. If the innkeepers, guards and other NPCs around you when you sleep are relationship rank 4, they should get included.
The dragon kill event I think does pick everyone, or at least it can (but I don’t have that happen often so I don’t remember much about it). Dungeon clear events should only pick followers, but then followers would be the only friendlies around (though if you kill the “boss npc” and leave minions alive, they might try to kill you if you have fun right away – that’s thy the delay was put in).
You could probably delete that dialog entry in the CK or TesVedit, but I don’t know what that might be tied to or how messy it might get.
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